What My Father Meant To Me
My father passed away on Monday. He suffered a massive stroke a year and a half ago and after a few months of optimism on our part, he started a slow and fateful decline, so his passing was not unexpected.
This is how I will always remember my relationship with my dad.
The two of us sitting around doing something nerdy involving computers or electronics. He taught me to program and fueled that passion as often as he could. We owned a home computer before the Apple II existed and even before most people knew a computer could fit in someone's house.
He had a Ph.D in Astrophysics and it's hard to describe how wonderful it was growing up with a father who could answer absolutely any question I had about spaceships, rockets, planets, stars, galaxies, quasars, black holes, asteroids, the sun or the moon. I could point into the night sky and ask "what's that?" and he could tell me after only a moment's hesitation.
I am who I am today because of him. Maniac Mansion, Monkey Island, Putt-Putt or Pajama Sam would not exist if not for him and the way he taught me to think and devour learning new things. He taught me to love to read, appreciate art and to always question my own beliefs and to be curious and inquisitiveness.
I'm sad he is gone and will miss him terribly, but I will forever be grateful for what he left me. Our life on this earth is not only what we did, but what we left behind for others.
David Gilbert
Scientist
Avid fisherman (ok, never understood this one)
Ham operator (ke7gi)
Best. Dad. Ever.
1939 - 2012
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Posted by David Pérez on Feb 29, 2012 twenty to one pm
Regards.
Posted by A PC gamer on Feb 29, 2012 quarter to one pm
Death sucks.
Posted by Ernesto Borio on Feb 29, 2012 ten past one pm
Hope you and your loved ones are ok.
Posted by Starky on Feb 29, 2012 twenty past one pm
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Posted by pananag on Feb 29, 2012 quarter past two pm
If he was like you, then he must have been a great man.
Posted by Roberto on Feb 29, 2012 twenty five past two pm
Thanks for your words, "Our life on this earth is not only what we did, but what we left behind for others.". They made me feel better, and I hope you find comfort too.
Posted by Chris on Feb 29, 2012 twenty five past two pm
You've been a great inspiration on me and the directions I've taken my career Ron. Your games and humor have inspired my art and the strive to learn how to program, so I can only imagine how wonderful your father was to inspire someone as intriguing as you.
I hope for only the best, my sincerest condolences to you and your family.
Posted by Tinker on Feb 29, 2012 twenty to three pm
He sounds like a person that made the world a better, richer place. I hope you will find peace, and that coming to terms is not too painful.
Kind regards
Posted by Clarence on Feb 29, 2012 ten to four pm
Your dad sounds like a great guy and through the amazing things you create I know he left a great deal with you.
Take care,
Clarence
Posted by Richard on Feb 29, 2012 ten to four pm
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Posted by Pablo on Feb 29, 2012 quarter to five pm
Im going to see that speech now... again.
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Posted by Eligius on Mar 1, 2012 ten past three am
My most sincere condolences.
Posted by TheBishop on Mar 1, 2012 five to four am
My condolences to you and your family.
Posted by Toptnc on Mar 1, 2012 quarter past four am
If you think he was the best dad in the world, surely he died thinking he accomplished his mission in life.
Posted by Ed on Mar 1, 2012 twenty to five am
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Posted by EKI on Mar 1, 2012 quarter to six am
He sure did a good job.
Posted by Sebastien Ferran on Mar 1, 2012 twenty past six am
Posted by Damian on Mar 1, 2012 twenty five past six am
I lost my father last month, after 13 months of being in hospitals after he fainted and had severe brain damage.
It's really hard. Too hard sometimes.
I feel so lucky to have a son, who's been my comfort and has given everything some meaning.
But the loss feeling... it's still there. You feel alone, if you know what I mean.
Big hugh from Spain. Be strong.
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Posted by Bat Fastard on Mar 3, 2012 half past four am
R.I.P David Gilbert
Father of a legend, and a legend in his own right.
Posted by Fher on Mar 3, 2012 twenty five past six am
Posted by Francesco on Mar 3, 2012 half past seven am
An Italian fan.
Posted by David on Mar 3, 2012 ten past ten am
I really feel your loss.
PD: You made me happy in my childhood.
Posted by Alex on Mar 3, 2012 five to one pm
Posted by ChrisF on Mar 3, 2012 one pm
I do believe that your games have provided similar support to many of your fans, thank you, and your father, for this.
Posted by DasJan on Mar 3, 2012 twenty to four pm
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Posted by George on Mar 4, 2012 eight am
So here are my condolences Ron. Be strong, like your dad wanted you to be.
Posted by Davide on Mar 4, 2012 quarter past noon
Life in all its aspects (like choices, merits) is just a matter of luck,
like the luck of having a wonderful father.
I'm sure you repaid him in pride.
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Posted by Momo on Mar 5, 2012 twenty to two am
Your father sounds a bit like mine, also a PhD who could answer any question I had, either with a down to earth translation of his vast knowledge, or a humble conversation about a topic that was new to us both. I can't imagine life without him.
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Posted by Demetris Thoupis on Mar 8, 2012 twenty five past one am
All the best and may he rest in piece.
Posted by Diduz on Mar 8, 2012 ten to three pm
My condolences, Ron.
Posted by chewy on Mar 9, 2012 quarter past ten am
Posted by Mario Garcés Usano on Mar 10, 2012 twenty five past five am
Sure he was proud of you, for things like making millions of gamers enjoy with games you developed.
R.I.P.
Warmest regards from Spain.
Posted by Daniel on Mar 10, 2012 quarter to eight am
Posted by Carlo on Mar 12, 2012 quarter to two am
My condolences, Mr. Gilbert
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Posted by Andrea on Mar 15, 2012 five past five pm
David Gilbert has indirectly changed my life too. If I'm a computer scientist right now, that's because of Monkey Island.
So, thanks Mr. Gilbert Senior. Rest in peace.
My condolences to you and your family, Ron.
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Posted by oznerol on Mar 28, 2012 five to nine am
My deepest condolences for your lost.
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Posted by PeterW on May 18, 2012 quarter past seven am
sorry for you loss
I'm glad he taught you so much I'm sure he's proud of what you've accomplished... makes me think of my dad, as a matter of fact i should call him:)
thanks Ron...
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